Here’s something you don’t see every day: women being honest and taking the blame for their role in issues between the sexes in society, and apologizing to men for the pain that they cause them through sexual manipulation. In case you can’t see the above video on YouTube for whatever reason, it’s also available on Archive.org.
Especially young men need to see this video because it will help them to understand what they’re getting themselves into when they stupidly choose to get into any kind of exclusive relationship with a woman (such as marriage). Some parts of this video confirm what I’ve discussed before in my post “The Manipulated Man”, with regard to women using their sexuality to manipulate men in order to get what they want. Here’s a quote from the video:
I want to apologize for all the mixed messages you get from us women, when we do everything we can to seduce you and then end up blaming you for being too horny and only wanting to have sex. Most of the time we don’t teach you anything about our own sexuality. We don’t stand up for our own needs and desires. And we expect you to guess and give us what we need. Instead of being authentic and real we give you a sexual performance even faking orgasms for you and then we blame you for our sexual frustration, and punish you with our moodiness, spite and withholding sex. I deeply acknowledge how much stress and performance anxiety this confusing sexual behavior can cause you.
I am aware that in our frustration and hurt we empower ourselves by making you small and speaking of the masculine with contempt and disrespect. I’m aware that often we seek to covertly dominate the masculine through manipulation. We have learned to play the game to give the masculine ego what it wants so that we get what we want, instead of being loyal to ourselves and our boundaries and asking honestly for what we want.
For centuries women have abused and castrated you as mothers who abuse the unconditional love of their children to meet their own unconscious needs. Who emotionally abuse their sons, instead of dealing honestly with the lack of love in their own partnership. Who told their boys not to cry, who told them that strong men don’t show their feelings, and thus told you to hide the most alive part of your being. I apologize for the lack of empathy you then encounter with your partners and wives when we suddenly want you to show feelings and understand ours.
If you allow yourself to fall into the trap of an exclusive relationship with a woman, you put yourself in a position of scarcity because you get dependent on a single person for many important things such as intimacy and sex. And they’re going to use that against you, for example by withholding sex until you do what they want as admitted in the video. If you never get into an exclusive relationship, and instead maintain several open relationships with different women simultaneously, you’re in a stronger position and not easily manipulated; if one woman withholds sex for whatever reason, you can stop seeing her immediately while enjoying time with the other women. I discuss what such a way of life might look like in my post “Relationships of the Future”.
Like women, most men are also being brainwashed from early childhood to desire exclusive relationships and live a monogamous life which goes against our true nature. This brainwash is part of the policy of sexual suppression/repression that most societies around the world are founded upon, and which serves to weaken the individual in order to make them easily manipulatable slaves. Men need to work to free themselves from this brainwash as much as women do. If you’re a young man, I can understand that initially you might follow society’s brainwash and get into exclusive relationships because you don’t know better, but you’ll soon experience the trouble it causes, and once you do, it’s up to you to think about it, analyze the situation and learn from your experience and stop making the same mistakes over and over again. It’s up to you to wake up and become wiser. Otherwise, you’re also to blame and not just the society that initially brainwashed you.
The same is also true for most women who also suffer from severe mental damage caused by the sexual repression brainwash in society, as I discuss in my series on Understanding Women. They’re also being conditioned from early childhood to want exclusive relationships, and to withhold their sexuality unless they get from a man what society teaches them to want from them. They’re also being conditioned to play games and to work with “signs” instead of being direct, open and honest about their sexual needs and desires. They also need to learn from their experiences and become wiser, instead of blaming men for problems caused by their own behavior.